Does this not mean onlybthat you can sing..when ive tried all the flamin notes sound the same
I can't tell you what you can or can't do. We hopefully all have the same opportunities, yet we don't all have the same build or abilities. I'd love to be a basketball star, but at 5' 8" and 77 years old that's not reality! I'd also love to have an Einstein Brain... that's not happening either. Why should we think that making music is somehow different?
This is the rough bit: There are lots of folks out there (generally who would like your $$) who will tell you that all you need to do is follow their teaching programme. Well, if you equate making music to engineering, then yes, you can learn to make a tone on an instrument and manipulate it in a mechanical way and eventually play a tune well that you've played and heard many times with some degree of satisfaction, and that's OK. But it's not quite the same thing as being able to play something that comes into your head as an original composition, or a creative improvisation. If you can't hear something to play or sing, then playing mechanically may be as good as it gets. If that's your goal and passion and it's a pleasure to achieve, then who is to say you shouldn't go for it?
We just need to keep some perspective as wishing isn't going to change our physical or mental abilities. We can work with what we've got and make the best of it. For the average person that may include being able to play tunes for friends be part of a band or sit in at a jam session and have fun.
My comments are generally aimed at those who wish to become professionals and need to broaden their scope of playing and develop their ear to hand abilities. It's challenging a new generation to leave behind the idea that improvisation is strictly a jazz phenomena, and teaching and playing in that one genre is somehow the pinnacle of musicianship. Being a musician is about entertaining people. When that stops happening and there is no audience, then you've got to at least recognize there is a problem. There is no doubt that developing extremely technical jazz chops takes work and dedication, yet it's a professional dead end. There are niches for all sorts music from the past... Ragtime, Trad Jazz, Big Band Bebop, etc. yet all of those require only a few top pros who can make a living. Being in the present tense and moving forward with the times is more likely to be where opportunities lie...if it's not all given over to AI... Ha!
For those who love playing standards and in a 1950s style, there is nobody stopping you and you are wished every happiness in your pursuit. However it too often seems that those who are dedicated to studying, playing, and especially teaching jazz aren't comfortable reciprocating those good wishes.
Practice well and be happy!