I think she's scared if she takes that step she'll not be able to get back to alcohol.
That would probably be the best outcome.
I've never felt like abstinence is dealing with a problem, it's more like putting off dealing with it indefinitely.
That is the whole point and it can buy 5 decades of life. I have met patients who said they didn't care one bit about the extra time if they couldn't drink alcohol.
I am pretty rusty on this, but I believe the rule of thumb back then was that a man can drink about 750-ml of hard liquor per day for max 5-years before liver failure is pretty much guaranteed; women about half of that. I understand the latter is not politically correct but there are apparently major gender differences in the amount of abuse the liver can take.
...very different cultures!
Denmark has a culture not altogether different from its fellow Scandinavian nations and yet a much more southern attitude towards alcohol. When I was a child, I briefly collected colorful labels for beer bottles, because there were a gazillion small Danish breweries in addition to Carlsberg and Tuborg, who swallowed the whole lot up decades before micro-breweries (re-)emerged. Carlsberg has a museum in Frederiksberg enclosed by Copenhagen. One of the exhibits mention that in the old days, the workers were entitled to ~2L beer during the working day. Any bizarre and true story is that Denmark at one point had an outbreak of scurvy among heavy beer drinkers. Turns out with 30 beers per day, there is no craving for additional calories and the breweries had stopped adding vitamin c to the beer...
Systembolaget in Sweden, Vinmonopolet in Norway, Alko in Finland ..... also Iceland haave a sales monopole
I admire loads of things about Sweden, but this is not one of them. I guess I am more live and let live in attitude. When I was a child, Copenhagen was full of drunken Swedes.
The profit goes back to the state and into the wellfare system.
Like tobacco taxes, I find there is a huge conflict of interest, because states and making money off habit that are harmful to most people. The French actually once made an analysis of the impact of smoking on state finances. The conclusion was that the state made a ton of money from tobacco taxes and surprisingly saved retirement funds to boot, because heavy smokers died prematurely. I would certainly consider France to have an excellent welfare system, in particular health care tends to rank really high, but this did seem a tad cynical.
But if a person relize that the alcohol is not good then they should stop drinking.
You are obviously right but most cannot. That is the whole point. You clearly don't possess an addictive personality. Neither do I with exception of saxophones and mouthpieces, where I have discovered a bizarre and disappointing lack of self-constraint. I won't profess to fully comprehend but it seems like a Jekyll and Hyde thing.