I understood how certain intervals don't usually work well together, unless intended for effect.
But it still eluded me in playing, why a certain note in the scale clashed on a chord.
@mrblackbat 's comment made me revisit chord structure and it clicked.
A 4th (11th) over a dominant chord will clash with the 3rd. e.g. F in Cmaj jars with the E, C in Gmaj with B, G in Dmaj with F#, Bb in Fmaj with A and so on, being a semitone/half step different.
Would this be the same for any maj chord? The minors being b3 wouldn't clash?
Please correct if wrong or missing something.
Easiest way to hear this is to sit at a piano and play them. Root position triads, add the seventh, then add the extension. Then isolate to just the clashing notes, the third and the 11th in this case.
One of the reasons the clash kind of stinks here is because the third is really what goes the chord it’s identity, and is the strongest identifying note in a chord. The root and fifth give you a ‘home’ sound (a fifth actually pretty much sounds and feels like the root and can actually be one of the hardest notes to identify in scale degrees), but they don’t identify the flavour. The third and seventh do that, with the third being the stronger.
The issue with a major chord and the 11th is not only are they a semitone (or a minor 9th) apart which clashes, but they muddy the flavour. Take an Emaj7 chord - E, G#, B, D# and play it. The 11th is an A so add that on top (tell me it doesn’t sound like a wrong note!); but now you also have a chord that sounds like an A chord - drop the A to the root and the chord immediately sounds more consonant and lovely, but the G# no longer sounds like a third at all, but the major 7th. Add in a C# and it cements that sound, which would be an A maj9#11 which is a very consonant sound.
With a dominant 7, the sound is even more confused, because the two chords produced are BOTH 11 chords (this time the A would be a Amaj7 add 11) with the same identity destabilising sound. Switch between the two and it’s difficult to hear a character change.
This matters in terms of conventional harmony because of the feel of chords - dominant chords are unstable and sound as if they want to to go somewhere, and the third and seventh both have pulls a semitone away to the tonic chord; the maj7 chord which in turn sounds like ‘home’. With an 11th present, they can both be home and both be an unstable chord at the same time. Which is great of that’s how you want things to sound of course.