How many for example have married to later divorce, because one or the other was a deceptive influencer (i.e. for selfish reasons only, a guy making himself look better than he really is with a motive for a female's attractiveness only?) Yeah, us guys, we joke and kid each other, "beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes clear to the bone." But the reality is, there are very, very few truly ugly women.
Even in US and European cultures (150 years ago) and aboriginal cultures (70 years ago), it was common for the parents of both sides to match make. Today there is much poo-poo-ing of this as "old fashion", but there was merit to this as both knew their children well. They knew who would be compatible. Overall, once joined they maintained their marital commitment for life.
I learned about this for example with the Navajo aboriginal culture. (Gallup, New Mexico is 66% aboriginal.) Some seniors were still alive when we were friends 25 years ago. They had their original relationship ('til death did they part), their parents arranged their marriages. These were concerned for the younger generation, who were breaking up within several years of joining, matching contemporary US culture.