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First and foremost I and many others are just trying to help, you are asking for help but in general you don't like the answers that you are given because you are resistant to a lot of solutions that members are trying to help you with.
To play music even for fun requires a certain amount of dedication and learning of some basic elements.
You want to be the best player that you can be, you have said that and that's to be applauded, you have said you want to play with other players, you have said that you want to be able to play by ear, all this is possible to you but you have to be at a certain level of expertise to achieve these goals, if you want to play in big band you need to be able to read dots well, playing by ear requires other knowledge, its a journey, time is not important because it doesn't matter if it takes you 10 years or 20 years to achieve your goals, but there are tried and tested formula's that work and have worked for decades.
You could follow these or not it's entirely up to you, but the only thing that members are trying to do is help.
To play music even for fun requires a certain amount of dedication and learning of some basic elements.
You want to be the best player that you can be, you have said that and that's to be applauded, you have said you want to play with other players, you have said that you want to be able to play by ear, all this is possible to you but you have to be at a certain level of expertise to achieve these goals, if you want to play in big band you need to be able to read dots well, playing by ear requires other knowledge, its a journey, time is not important because it doesn't matter if it takes you 10 years or 20 years to achieve your goals, but there are tried and tested formula's that work and have worked for decades.
You could follow these or not it's entirely up to you, but the only thing that members are trying to do is help.

