hello haroldw1, welcome to The Breakfast Room.
ive been playing the sax for just 9 months and when I first started i figured I'd just learn to play " by ear " and for the first few weeks I was happy with that. Then I had my first proper lesson with a proper teacher. She found various methods of persuasion (including physical torture I think ) to talk me into learning to read music.
At first, all the little black dots formed a circle in the center of the page. congregated into areas which made it look like a face,,, which then stuck its toungue out at me..
Now, 9 months later, I've just taken my level 3 exam including the little sight reading bit, and thats the part i found easiest.
My teacher helped me to stop concentrating so much on the notes, and more on the key sig, time and rythm. the notes come easier once you have the basic tune in ya head.