See "The Choir" on BBC2 last night? Good example of what we're discussing.
Gareth (the choirmaster) wanted someone to do a short solo and he asked for volunteers. The obvious choice was a black girl who already sang in a gospel group. Several members who thought they could do it came up, but were rubbish, and the black girl stood at the back and said nothing.
In the break Gareth had a quiet word with her, asking her if she would like to have a go at the solo, she reluctantly agreed, did it, and was great!
I think he was hoping she would volunteer in the first place, but didn't want to upset the others by choosing her without hearing the others first.
I guess we all hear the masters playing and think "I could do that", until you try and copy, and find it ain't as easy as you thought. But unfortunately for some, the delusion doesn't end there, you think you've got it, and it doesn't help when family and friends, who don't know better, egg you on with words of praise, saying "you sound as good as him anyday". Unfortunately some of us believe it, until we go public, and get booed off the stage, metaphorically.
Yep, just be content that we only do it for our own pleasure, and if there is any talent there, and we are destined to go far, then it will happen.
Confuscious said "when the pupil is ready, then the teacher will appear".
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